BJ Magic
Give the most turned-on, confident & fun BJs of your life!
Join me for a transformative in-person workshop where you’ll learn how to give your partner new levels of full-body pleasure and spine-tingling bliss.
Discover how to tap into your own turn-on, so you enjoy BJs just as much as your partner—and feel joyful, confident and empowered every step of the way!
Learn how to give the most electrifying, spine-tingling, life-changing blowjobs
In BJ Magic I’ll show you how to create a sensual experience that leaves both you and your partner deeply satisfied and glowing from the inside out.
I’m sure you’ve seen classes focusing on techniques before. Technique does matter, and we’ll definitely dive into that.
But in this workshop we’re going way beyond technique to explore the thing no one really talks about when it comes to giving great head:
What truly sets an unforgettable blowjob apart is you—your pleasure, your confidence and your connection to your own sensuality.
Before you even touch your partner, it’s about finding your turn-on.
Prioritizing your pleasure.
So that when you give, you’re not performing, you’re deeply present.
Enjoying every second of the experience.
BJ Magic is about showing you how to tune into your own sexual energy, so you not only enjoy giving head, you feel safe, joyful and fully empowered while doing it.
And your partner will 100% feel the difference.
The #1 most important element of a great BJ (It’s not what you think)
How to activate your own turn-on so you enjoy going down on your partner as much as they love receiving
Techniques for rewiring your neural pathways, so you go from dreading head to loving it and feeling like an empowered BJ Queen or Royal
Tools for rewriting old stories around BJs and claiming your own narrative about pleasuring penises
Steps to create a pre-BJ ritual that connects you with your radiance and confidence
How to confidently initiate, build a slow burn, and lead your partner into new levels of spine-tingling pleasure
Techniques for maximizing full-body bliss, turning BJs into mutual, immersive pleasure
How to make BJs an enjoyable act that builds love and connection between you and your partner(s)
How to honor your boundaries and prioritize self-consent
My 5-step pleasure map for confidently giving cosmic-level BJs that are orgasmic for both you and your partner
You’ll discover:
You’ll also receive these bonus goodies:
BJ Magic notes for easy reference, freeing you to be moment
A techniques cheat sheet, so you can practice at your pace
A guided pleasure meditation audio to deepen your body connection and turn-on long after the workshop
Does any of this resonate?
You don't feel confident going down on your partner, so you try to avoid it, or get it over with quickly
Instead of feeling excited at the thought of giving your partner oral pleasure, your body responds with dread or shut-down
You use BJs to placate your partner when you don't want penetrative sex. You can both feel it. You don't love giving them and your partner can feel you're just doing it to "get things over with"
You get bored while pleasuring your partner. Your jaw gets sore. You don't know when or how to change up your technique to keep it fun and interesting for both of you
You go into performative mode and start giving the kind of BJs you see in porn, but then you feel turned off or disassociated. Which makes you want to give your partner oral pleasure even less
You *want* to embrace the joy of giving BJs, but you just don't. You feel trapped in a cycle of guilt and frustration and don't know how to get out of it
Or maybe you enjoy giving BJs, but see it mostly as a way to please you partner, without realizing how it can also be a powerful source of your own pleasure
You deserve so much more than this.
You deserve to feel electric tingles running through your whole body at the thought of pleasuring your partner.
You deserve to experience full-body bliss and deep connection while giving BJs.
You deserve to step into your power and become an empowered BJ Goddess.
That’s exactly why I created BJ Magic.
To show you how to let go of obligation, guilt or disconnection… and become a divine, radiant, turned-on Grand Mistress of the Penis.
In this workshop I’ll show you how to transform your BJ mindset so you go from dreading head to feeling like an empowered BJ Queen
Meet your instructor:
Hi! I’m Olaiya
I’m a certified Pleasure and Sexual Empowerment coach (a.k.a. Sensual Sorceress and Pleasure Priestess) who’s committed to helping you unlock the full potential of your sensuality.
I use a holistic approach (body + mind + spirit) that helps you embrace your body, access new levels of pleasure, and experience electrifying sex and awe-inspiring orgasms.
It's my mission to help you reclaim your confidence and deepen your connection with yourself and your sexuality.
So you can reclaim the full, unapologetic joy of being alive!
You can read more about me here.
The Details
Thursday, February 5, 2026
6.00 to 9.00 pm
Location: My studio in Seattle (Columbia City neighborhood)
Price: $111
10 spots available
Who is BJ Magic for?
BJ Magic is for women and femmes who feel called to explore the art of giving pleasure as a joyful, empowering practice.
This workshop offers a space to embrace the beauty and depth of intimate connection, transforming giving into an act that super-charges your own radiance, confidence and turn-on.
Rooted in consent, inclusivity and trauma-awareness, BJ Magic invites you to create a playful, safe and heart-centered experience that allows you to fully embody your sensuality and experience the joy of shared pleasure.
Here’s what happens when you sprinkle some BJ Magic into your life
Imagine this scenario:
You’re fully immersed in your own pleasure as you playfully touch and tease your partner.
Your partner feels your excitement and it heightens theirs, creating a powerful exchange of desire and connection.
This flow of energy lifts you both higher, turning what might have been a routine BJ into an electric moment of connection and pleasure.
That’s BJ Magic.
And the magic extends far beyond hot sex.
Knowing how to ignite your own turn-on, so you have access to it whenever you like, amplifies your radiance and magnetism.
Sensual awareness brings richness to your days.
It heightens your presence and pleasure in everything from savoring your morning latte to sinking into the softness of your bed at night.
Great BJs and great sex carry over from the bedroom into your whole life, amplifying your confidence, your power, your aliveness and your joy.
What people are saying about BJ Magic
“BJ Magic has already improved my sexual experience! I was giving my partner a BJ after the workshop and he said it felt like magic!
I have a new confidence in myself and in my ability to provide amazing pleasure.”
- M.S.
“Wow I honestly can’t wait to use these tips and tricks! I’m so excited I get turned on just thinking about it!!! My partner is blessed and lucky AF to have me, this penis pleasure priestess, to give him a BJ!”
- A.E.
“BJ Magic helped me slow down and pay attention to my turn on before I connect physically with my partner. This feels way more fun and authentic!”
- Michelle Quigley Pearson
“The techniques made me feel more confident because it showed me that what is pleasurable isn’t impossible or out of reach for the inexperienced.”
- Claire
“I was worried about feeling self-conscious or uncomfortable before the workshop, but it felt safe, comfortable, educational and fun!”
- Grace
“I’ve been doing work to connect with my body, but have been stuggling to tap into that sense of play and desire. This has been so helpful for reclaiming it for myself.”
- Anonymous
“It felt healing and inspiring!”
- Kelsey
“Thank you this was fabulous! I want to give more BJs!”
- Katie
Reserve your spot now to unlock confidence, radiance and deeper connection in intimacy
F. A. Q.
What genders and orientations is this workshop for?
This workshop is open to all women and femmes who want to learn to pleasure penises from a place of safety, confidence and pleasure.
I’ve been in wellness spaces that are fatphobic / transphobic / homophobic / ageist / centered around whiteness. Will that be the case here?
Nope. This space will be inclusive of all participants regardless of sexual orientation, gender, body size, age or skin color.
Will you be demonstrating the techniques?
Absolutely! Though not on an actual penis. I highly encourage bringing a dildo, vibrator or phallic shaped fruit or veg to practice on if you want.
I have experienced sexual trauma. Will this be a good space for me?
I am not a trauma specialist, therapist or mental health professional. I do not specialize in trauma resolution and healing. If that is the work that you feel would most serve you at this time and you need some recommendations of coaches or mental health professionals to work with, let me know and I’d be happy to refer you.
That said, I am a trauma-informed coach and continuously strive to create safer spaces for people with trauma. If you’d like to chat about what that looks like, or if this is a good fit for you, feel free to get in touch.
I have a question not addressed here. Can I get in touch with you?
Absolutely. Email me here with any additional questions.